In our African culture, having a visitor in your home is considered an honor, and surprise visitors at mealtimes expect to join in the meal. In most African cultures, and in many other cultures around the world, sharing a meal together is necessary to get better acquainted. In West Africa and in the western part of Ivory Coast, my home country, if someone were to ask you, “Do you know Michée?” if you did not, you would reply, “No, I have never eaten in his house.” Shared meals are very important for building relationships here. For this reason, every New Year, we organize a get-together with our language helpers.

At our first gathering in January 2008, there were 12 of us at first—my four official language helpers, six other guests and Elmire and me. But before the end of the party, 10 more guests arrived.

On January 15, we held our third annual festivity. Our language and culture helpers have increased in number, and neighbors have come to anticipate the party. This year, close to 40 people showed up.

We have a saying that if there is enough for two, then there will be enough for four. However, this year we had a hard time seating and feeding everyone. Fortunately, all got something to eat, and everyone was able to have a piece of the special cake Elmire had baked for 30 people.

We thank God for the social impact of our gathering and the opportunity it gives us every year to overcome barriers and give people a positive impression of our work. Thanks for your support and prayers that contribute every year to the success of this gathering.

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